Art of Seduction Phase 1 -Create a False Sense of Security

SEND MIXED SIGNALS

Once people aware of your presence or vaguely have an impression of you, you need to

1. Stir their interest before it settles on someone else

2. Send mixed signals , both tough & tender, innocent & cunning

Methods:

1. Fill someone's mind with your image

2. Attract their attention with your innonence, beauty & flirtious but not obession

3. Hint at a complexity & once they begin to fantasize about you, that's it!

4. Key to both attracting & holding attention is to radiate mystery. How?
(How? Something you have to work at , a poly on your part. Let one part of your character show so that everyone notices it.)

5. Send mixed signal that you are not what you seem. Dont worry about whether if it is a negative one. By doing this, you will draw attention.

6. Show attributes that go against your physical appearance, creating depth & mystery

Example

If you are innocent & sweet, let out hints of something dark & cruel in your character

Reversal

1. Affect people that have the capacity to enjoy mystery
( Some people like things SIMPLE & LACK PATIENCE to pursue a person who confuse them)

2. Test out what the character the victim is. Do not bother creating depth for people who are insensitive or may even put off / distributed.

Summary

On stage, the curtain's heavy deep-red folds attract your eye with their hypnotic surface. What really fascinates & draw you in is what you think might happen behind the curtain.

KEYWORD : 深刻印象