Art of Seduction Phase 1 - Create a Need

STIR ANXIETY & DISCONTENT

1. A perfectly satisfied person cannot be seduced

2. Tension & disharmony must be instilled in your targets' minds

3. Stir within them feelings of discontent (unhappiness, life lack adventure)

4. Make them see you as the answer to their problems

Methods:

1. Begin a relationship in a friendship manner - with frank talks, exchanges of confidences , a spiritual bond. Suddenly turn against them, voicing harsh personal critiscisms.

2. By the time, critiscism are often accurate & it trigger a confusion in your victims

3. Now, they wondered why you are doing this & felt unfair. With other (mind) half they believed it was true.

4. Finally, you go back to your normal self & they will see you indifferently

5. No one can see you as someone to fall in love with unless they first reflect on themselves somehow & what they are missing.

6. Make aware of a lack (emptiness), they now can focus on you as the person who can fill that empty space

7. Make people anxious about the future, make them depressed, make them sense the boredom in their life.

(Demoralise them & compare them to others what they lack of )

8. Try to position yourself as coming from outside or stranger. You represent CHANGE, DIFFERENCE & BREAKUP ROUTINES.

(Other circumstances play a role, DULL people they know )

9. Aim at the victim's past. Present yourself as representing that ideal, offering a chance to recapture lost youth.

(Let her feel how youthful was she in the past )

10. Made people feel BETTER about themselves. This is a kind of diffused seduction. It bypasses the need for some kind of fulfilment. If you are there, it can be a way to lower their defense, creating an unthreatening friendship.

( Only apply to people that riddle with insecurities)

Example

1. After getting a contact number from a gal, try to message her everyday. Make her get use to your sweet talk and suddenly you dont message her.

2. Try targeting problem child. (Ah Lian) Problem child tend to have some empty spaces for you to fill.

Reversal

If you go too far in lowering the target's self-esteem, they feel too insecure to enter into your seduction. ( Always follow up after a wounding attack)

Summary

What awakens desire in the seduced is not a soft touch or a pleasant sensation, it is a WOUND. The arrow creates a pain, an ache, a need for RELIEF. Before desire, there must be pain. Aim the arrow at the victim's WEAKEST spot, creating a wound that you can OPEN & REOPEN.

KEYWORD : 伤口