Monday, September 29, 2008

The Seductive Character 5 - The Natural

NATURAL

Characteristics:

1. Let go to a degree that there is nothing less natural than seeming hesitant

2. Position yourself in any relationship as the child, the younger one

The Innocent

1. Weakness & misunderstanding

2. Mixture of laughter & sympathy

3. Exaggerate their weakness to elict the proper sympathy

4. Communicate weakness indirectly, through looks & glances or situations they get themselves into.

The Imp

1. Fearlessness. They do not see the possible consequences of their actions.

2. Brazen & uncaring

3. Dont worry about offending people now & then - you are too lovable & inevitably they will forgive you

4. Whatever you say or do, show that you dont take anything seriously

The Wonder

1. A gift in a particular skill

2. Hide the talent & learn to make your work appear effortless

3. More you hide, more natural & seductive it will appear

The Undefensive Lover

1. Defensiveness is deadly in seduction. Act defensive & you'll bring out defensiveness in other people.

2. Lower the inhibitions of his target

3. Be open to influence from others

4. Resistance is a way of testing you, if you show any awkwardness or hesistation, you will fail the test, but you will risk infecting them with your doubts

Danger

1. Can also be irritating but with the combination of adult experience & wisdom, it is most alluring

2. Only artists or people with abundant leisure time can do it

3. Best way to use is to lower your target's defenses

4. NATURAL pose is the perfect way to disguise your cleverness but if you cant control, it is not earning sympathy but pity & digust.

5. Cant use this technique when you are aging

Summary

So soft & endearing. At 2 days old, the lamb can play gracefully ; within a week it is playing "Follow the Leader". Its weakness is part of its charm. The Lamb is pure innocence, so innocent we want to possess it, even devour it.

KEYWORD : 小羊

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