Art of Seduction Phase 1 -Create a False Sense of Security

APPROACH INDIRECTLY

1. Never be direct early or else you risk stirring up a resistance.

2. Begin at an angle, indirectly, so that target only gradually become aware of you.

3. Approach through third party, maintain neutral relationship moving from FRIEND to LOVER.

4. Arrange an occasional "chance" encounter as if you all are destined to be acquaintance.

5. Let them feel secure then STRIKE.

Methods:

1. Friendly conversation brings you valuable information about their character, tastes and their weaknesses.

2. Spending more time with your targets make them comfortable with you. (result will be their resistance & usual tension will be lower)

3. Make the target come to you. (How? Befriend them & maintain a distance appropriate for friends)

4. Play cat & mouse, first interested then stepping back.

5. Too much attention early will suggest insecurity & raise doubt to motives. (you can never understand the opposite sex)

6. Never mention love. They will start to imagine what else is going on in your mind. They will be the ones to bring up the topic of love.

7. Getting your target through other people is effective. (gain information & find a way to approach her in an unthreatening manner)

8. Don't declare feeling early because it provokes mistrust.

9. Learn to disguise your feeling & let people figure out what is happening for themselves.

Example

Get to know the girl that you like through a friend of hers.

Reversal

You can strike an immediate impression, stirring her desire at the first encounter but this one is a short seduction.

Summary

The spider sits quietly in the corner, waiting for its victims to come to it on their own & ensnare themselves in the web.

KEYWORD : 认识

Art of Seduction Phase 1 -Choose the Right Victim

Victim - isolated, unhappy & suffer recent misfortune

Note: completely contented person is impossible to seduce

Methods:

1. Make victim emotional at the right moment

2. Know when & how to restrain themselves

3. Go for the thrill of chase, life & death struggle, the fiercer the better

4. People who are outwardly distant or shy are often better targets

5. People with a lot of time on their hands. (Mental space for you to fill)

6. Seduction demands attention & don't target busy people

7. Perfect victim are people who think you have something they don't and want it provided for them. Your character must be different from them and this different create an exciting tension

Example

1.Woman who looks sideways at you (blush & unusual shyness)

2.Do not go for a friend that you know for years. Choose one who is completely new to you.

3.Go for problem child. She always has problems for you to fill up and this is a good chance for seduction. "Ah Lian" will be the most appropriate example.

Reversal

Don't seduce the person who is closed to you or who can't provide the pleasure & chase that you need.

Summary

Lions are dangerous. To hunt them is to know the thrill of risk. Leopards are clever & swift, offering the excitement of a difficult chase. Never rush into the hunt. Know your prey & choose it carefully.

Do not waste time with small game - rabbits that back into snores, the mink that walk into a scented trap.

CHALLENGE IS PLEASURE.

KEYWORD : 选择

Art of Seduction - Introduction

I had come across this book "Art of Seduction" by Robert Green.

It is a very interesting book that teaches you how to seduce a woman. In his book, he uses woman as "victim". It is a nice word to guys but offensive to gals.

I will slowly reveal the POWER of this book and quote real life examples to support his theories. If one needs more detail explanation, you can get his book at the bookstore. It is red in colour.

So everyone please be patient as i will slowly explain some key points in the book that will help guys to seduce the victim.

What i feel about this book is that it is more relevant for GUYS than gals.

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