Novice
Characteristics:
They are curious & have little or no experience of the world. Long to initiate into the ways of the world.
Solution:
1. Interested in people with experience, people with a touch of corruption & evil.
2. You must have somewhat childlike yourself with a playful spirit.
3. Expose them to new ideas, take them to new places, new worlds both literal & metaphoric.
4. Everything must be romantic including the evil & dark side of life.
5. Seductive language works wonder as does attention to detail
6. Mix innocence & corruption
KEYWORD : 好奇
Friday, March 20, 2009
The Seducer's Victim 5 - The Crushed Star
Crushed Star
Characteristics:
1. Find themselves the centre of attention, perhaps they were beautiful or had some talent but those days are gone.
2. Memory of having once shone is hard to get over.
3. Learn to tamp down their desires, but failing to get attention they feel they desrve, they become resentful.
4. Recognise by they suddenly receive some attention in a social setting, it makes them glow.
Solution:
1. Make them the centre of attention .When you are with them, act as if they were stars & you are basking in their glow.
2. Get them to talk about themselves. Mute your own colours & let them look funny & radiant.
3. Play the Charmer. They will feel intensely grateful to you for letting them shine.
KEYWORD : 注意
Characteristics:
1. Find themselves the centre of attention, perhaps they were beautiful or had some talent but those days are gone.
2. Memory of having once shone is hard to get over.
3. Learn to tamp down their desires, but failing to get attention they feel they desrve, they become resentful.
4. Recognise by they suddenly receive some attention in a social setting, it makes them glow.
Solution:
1. Make them the centre of attention .When you are with them, act as if they were stars & you are basking in their glow.
2. Get them to talk about themselves. Mute your own colours & let them look funny & radiant.
3. Play the Charmer. They will feel intensely grateful to you for letting them shine.
KEYWORD : 注意
Thursday, March 19, 2009
The Seducer's Victim 4 - The New Prude
New Prude
Characteristics:
1. Excessively concerned with appearances, with what society considers appropriate & acceptable behaviour.
2. Excited & intrigued by guilty, transgressive pleasures.
3. Frightened by this attraction, tend to run in the opposite direction & become the most correct of all.
4. Never take fashion risks
5. Can be judgemental & critical of people who do take risks & are less correct.
6. Addicited to routine which gives them a way to tamp down their inner turmoil.
Solution:
1. If you desire a New Prude, do not be taken in by their judgement of you or their criticisms. That is the sign of how deeply you fascinate them. You are on their mind.
2. Draw their attention by giving them the chance to criticise you or even try to reform you.
3. Now, you have the perfect excuse to spend time with them.
4. Once you open them up & get them to let go of their correctness, they are flooded with feelings & energies.
KEYWORD : 正常
Characteristics:
1. Excessively concerned with appearances, with what society considers appropriate & acceptable behaviour.
2. Excited & intrigued by guilty, transgressive pleasures.
3. Frightened by this attraction, tend to run in the opposite direction & become the most correct of all.
4. Never take fashion risks
5. Can be judgemental & critical of people who do take risks & are less correct.
6. Addicited to routine which gives them a way to tamp down their inner turmoil.
Solution:
1. If you desire a New Prude, do not be taken in by their judgement of you or their criticisms. That is the sign of how deeply you fascinate them. You are on their mind.
2. Draw their attention by giving them the chance to criticise you or even try to reform you.
3. Now, you have the perfect excuse to spend time with them.
4. Once you open them up & get them to let go of their correctness, they are flooded with feelings & energies.
KEYWORD : 正常
The Seducer's Victim 3 - The Pampered Royal
Pampered Royal
Characteristics:
1. Classic spoiled children. All of their wants & desires were met by an adoring parent - endless entertainments, toys
2. Others will to do the entertainment for them
3. Being spoiled, they get lazy, as they get older, they tend to feel bored & restless because nobody pamper them.
4. Find pleasure in variety ( person to person, job , place)
5. Do not settle in relationship
6. Their ceaseless search for variety is tiring for them & come with a price (Work problems, unsatisfying romances, friends scatter across the globe)
7. Looking for a potential figure, who will give them the spoiling they craved
Solution:
1. Be ready to provide a lot of distraction - new places to visit, novel experiences, color, spectacles.
2. Maintain air of mystery, continually surprising your target with a new side to your character.
3. Variety is the key.
4. Once hooked, they will quickly grow dependant on you & you can put out less effort
5. After a long relationship, disguise it. Offer long term security to them.
6. Recognise them by their past - job changes, travel, short term relationship.
KEYWORD : 依赖
Characteristics:
1. Classic spoiled children. All of their wants & desires were met by an adoring parent - endless entertainments, toys
2. Others will to do the entertainment for them
3. Being spoiled, they get lazy, as they get older, they tend to feel bored & restless because nobody pamper them.
4. Find pleasure in variety ( person to person, job , place)
5. Do not settle in relationship
6. Their ceaseless search for variety is tiring for them & come with a price (Work problems, unsatisfying romances, friends scatter across the globe)
7. Looking for a potential figure, who will give them the spoiling they craved
Solution:
1. Be ready to provide a lot of distraction - new places to visit, novel experiences, color, spectacles.
2. Maintain air of mystery, continually surprising your target with a new side to your character.
3. Variety is the key.
4. Once hooked, they will quickly grow dependant on you & you can put out less effort
5. After a long relationship, disguise it. Offer long term security to them.
6. Recognise them by their past - job changes, travel, short term relationship.
KEYWORD : 依赖
The Seducer's Victim 2 - The Disappointed Dream
Disappointed Dream
Characteristics:
1. Spent a lot of time alone & to entertain themselves, they develop a fantasy life, fed by books & films & other kinds of popular culture
2. Difficult to reconcil their fantasy life with reality & often disappointed by what they get when they are old.
3. Particularly true in relationship as they have been dreaming of romantic heroes, danger & excitement, but what they have is lovers with human frailities, pretty weeakness of everyday life.
4. Force themselves to compromise or otherwise spend their lives alone. But actually they are bitter & hungering for something grand & romantic.
Solution:
1. Recognize them by the books they read & film they go. In their clothes & home furnishing, a taste for exuberant romance.
2. They make excellent & satisfying victims.
3. They have great imagination & will respond to anything mysterious or romantic you offer them.
4. Disguise some of your less than exalted qualities & give them a part of their dream.
5. Give them a part, they will imagine the rest. At all cost, do not let reality break the illusion you are creating.
KEYWORD : 想相力丰富
Characteristics:
1. Spent a lot of time alone & to entertain themselves, they develop a fantasy life, fed by books & films & other kinds of popular culture
2. Difficult to reconcil their fantasy life with reality & often disappointed by what they get when they are old.
3. Particularly true in relationship as they have been dreaming of romantic heroes, danger & excitement, but what they have is lovers with human frailities, pretty weeakness of everyday life.
4. Force themselves to compromise or otherwise spend their lives alone. But actually they are bitter & hungering for something grand & romantic.
Solution:
1. Recognize them by the books they read & film they go. In their clothes & home furnishing, a taste for exuberant romance.
2. They make excellent & satisfying victims.
3. They have great imagination & will respond to anything mysterious or romantic you offer them.
4. Disguise some of your less than exalted qualities & give them a part of their dream.
5. Give them a part, they will imagine the rest. At all cost, do not let reality break the illusion you are creating.
KEYWORD : 想相力丰富
The Seducer's Victim 1 - The Reformed Rake / Siren
Reformed Rake / Siren
Characteristics:
1. Once happy-go-lucky seducers, encounter so many social hostily & were getting older & decide to settle down
2. Trying to recapture pleasures that we experience in the past but temptation is great because the pleasures they found in seduction were intense
Solution:
1. Cross their path & offer them opportunity to resume their rakish / siren ways
2. Give the illusion that they are the one doing the seducing. Give her the impression that she still has the irresistible power to draw a man in & make him give up everything for her.
3. A pre-existing committment is often the perfect foil
KEYWORD : 风流
Characteristics:
1. Once happy-go-lucky seducers, encounter so many social hostily & were getting older & decide to settle down
2. Trying to recapture pleasures that we experience in the past but temptation is great because the pleasures they found in seduction were intense
Solution:
1. Cross their path & offer them opportunity to resume their rakish / siren ways
2. Give the illusion that they are the one doing the seducing. Give her the impression that she still has the irresistible power to draw a man in & make him give up everything for her.
3. A pre-existing committment is often the perfect foil
KEYWORD : 风流
Tuesday, January 6, 2009
The Seducer's Victim - Introduction
Introduction
In this chapter, i will introduce different types of victim that one come across in your life.
They are total 17 types of vicitm that i need to touch on. You have to adapt to each individual that work best for you.
Characteristics:
1. Categorised by what they feel they are missing
2. Once identify their type, have the necessary ingredients for a seduction
3. Give them what they lack & cannot get on their own
4. Learn to see the reality behind the appearance
5. Never try to seduce your own type. You will be like 2 puzzles missing the same parts
Vicitim Theory
1. Nobody in this world feels whole & complete. We sense some gap in our character, something we need or want but cant get on our own.
2. When fall in love, it is often someone who seems to fill that gap
3. Seducer doesnt leave such things to chance. FOCUS on the gaps, the missing pieces in their psyche.
4. Pay close attention to their clothes, gestures, offhand comment, things in their house, certain looks in their eyes, get them to talk about their past, particularly past romance.
5. Understand: People are constantly giving out signals as to what they lack
6. Expunge the nasty habit of thinking that others have the same lacks you do.
In this chapter, i will introduce different types of victim that one come across in your life.
They are total 17 types of vicitm that i need to touch on. You have to adapt to each individual that work best for you.
Characteristics:
1. Categorised by what they feel they are missing
2. Once identify their type, have the necessary ingredients for a seduction
3. Give them what they lack & cannot get on their own
4. Learn to see the reality behind the appearance
5. Never try to seduce your own type. You will be like 2 puzzles missing the same parts
Vicitim Theory
1. Nobody in this world feels whole & complete. We sense some gap in our character, something we need or want but cant get on our own.
2. When fall in love, it is often someone who seems to fill that gap
3. Seducer doesnt leave such things to chance. FOCUS on the gaps, the missing pieces in their psyche.
4. Pay close attention to their clothes, gestures, offhand comment, things in their house, certain looks in their eyes, get them to talk about their past, particularly past romance.
5. Understand: People are constantly giving out signals as to what they lack
6. Expunge the nasty habit of thinking that others have the same lacks you do.
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